A Little Scary Truth About Style: The One-In, One-Out Rule

A Quick Read: As the last of the pumpkins flicker out and the candles burn low, we’re reminded that not all scary things hide in haunted houses. Some are tucked inside our own, drawers that don’t close, closets that overflow, and shelves that tell too many stories at once.

It sounds dramatic, but sometimes the spookiest thing we can do is face our clutter.

The one-in, one-out rule is a small but powerful way to reclaim calm from the chaos. Every time you bring something new into your home, whether it’s a cozy fall throw, a candle you couldn’t resist, or that perfect ceramic vase, choose one item to let go of. It could be something you’ve outgrown, something collecting dust, or simply something that doesn’t reflect your home’s current rhythm.

This practice isn’t about strict minimalism. It’s about balance. It’s about honouring your home as a living, breathing space that evolves with you. When we hold onto everything, even the beautiful things lose their impact. But when we edit thoughtfully, what remains shines.

Try it this week:

• As you begin to tuck away your Halloween décor, take a moment to decide what’s worth keeping for next year and what can be let go.

• Replace some seasonal pieces with simple placeholders neutral accents, candles, or greenery, so your space feels calm and open before the holiday season begins.

• When it’s time to decorate again, you’ll be more intentional about what truly fits your home and your mood.

You’ll be surprised by how liberating it feels. The act of letting go creates room not just on your shelves, but in your mind. It turns decorating into a mindful ritual, a way of acknowledging what no longer serves you and celebrating what still does.

And maybe that’s the real trick of the season: not adding more, but creating beauty through less.

So as October fades into November, take a deep breath, light your favourite candle, and release something that’s been lingering too long. You might just find that the space you create invites in more peace, more light, and more of you.

Because at the end of the day, the most hauntingly beautiful homes aren’t filled with things they’re filled with meaning.

— Cedar & Stone Co.